You think because nobody loves you yet then you are worthless. You think your partner not wanting you anymore makes you a failure yeah!!! That their opinion and negative utterances about you is gospel. Do you really think because anyone has thrown you out, then you have automatically become thrash? You think they belong to you because you need to belong to them???. Naaaaah, dont. It’s a bad word, ‘belong.’ Especially when you put it with somebody you are in love with.
Love shouldn’t be like that. Love can be felt by two people not one person alone.
Have you seen the way fishes love water? They sleep, swim, feed, and even die in it; sometimes you can’t even see the water clearly because the fishes are swimming around because they love the water and belong in the water. They stay there happy, free, with nothing to hide or bind them.
You can’t own a Person.
You can’t lose what you don’t own. Suppose you did own anyone. Could you really love somebody who loves themselves only? Or can you love someone who has nobody else to love him or her? Do you really want to love somebody like that? Somebody who will fall apart when you walk out the door? You don’t, do you? And neither does anyone.
Turning over your whole life for someone is the greatest mistake anyone can ever make. If your whole life means so little to you then you can just give it away, hand it to any passerby.
No one can value you if you do not value yourself